THE GIFT OF PAIN
â€œPain â€“ the gift nobody longs for, still it comes.â€ The lyrics recorded by singer Greg Long years ago stir up questions. Gift? Pain â€“ a gift? Is that possible? Dr. Paul Brand says it is. He regards physical pain as one of the human bodyâ€™s most remarkable design features. He even wrote a book about it called The Gift of Pain: Why We Hurt and What We Can Do About It. After witnessing the devastating effects of having no pain sensation, he says if he could choose one gift for his leprosy patients, it would be the gift of pain. Hmmm, a rather odd gift not many would welcome.
If thatâ€™s not confounding enough, not only is pain a gift, but it is a privilege! Thatâ€™s right. Jesus said, â€œFor you have been given not only the privilege of trusting in Christ but also the privilege of suffering for himâ€ (Phil. 1:29). So what is it about pain and suffering that make it a privilege? Can there be purpose in pain? Absolutely! My next blog will address that very thing.
A lot of people I know are currently dealing with pain. My dear friend Susan has dealt with it for over a decade! Due to neurological, muscular, and mobility issues, she is barely able to move around. She lives alone in a house with numerous steps. Thereâ€™s no telling how many times she has fallen down her basement steps as she has difficulty with numbness in her feet. One Christmas my husband spent the day in the ER after rescuing her from having passed out on the kitchen floor. Then thereâ€™s my prayer partner Jean who has been dealing with sciatic pain in her hip. Some days are exceedingly difficult for her to walk her dog. Another friend has ongoing arthritic knee pain. She would rather sit than do anything that requires exertion, and sheâ€™s in her 40â€™s!
The age old question of why does God permit trouble and tribulation cannot be easily answered. Here are a few reasons my friend Sharon and I came up with years ago:
- To silence the devil
- To glorify God
- To make us more like Jesus
- To strengthen our faith
- To purify our lives
- To bring about reward
- To teach us patience
- To make us sympathetic
- To separate us from the world
- To make and keep us humble
- To teach us to pray
- To expand our praise
Do any of them resonate with you? These are some good reasons for sure. Sharon made me a colorful list that I posted on my refrigerator when I was going through my cancer journey. I especially liked the one â€œto glorify Godâ€ and â€œexpand our praise.â€ My cancer experience was a testimony to both.
God may not necessarily be at the root of our tribulation, but He may allow it. There is a difference. Our free will and His control are prominent factors. We must exercise faith and trust to accept that God will not allow anything to come into our lives outside of His will. God is not accountable to us. However, there is nothing wrong with asking why â€“ as long as we donâ€™t get the idea that God owes us an answer. â€œFor He inflicts pain, and gives relief; He wounds, and His hands also healâ€ (Job 5:18). If the Lord told us why things happen as they do, would that ease our pain? We need to trust that whatever comes our way, God will bring us through it.
Painâ€™s blessing is that it offers us a chance to grow through character and faith as well as expose our weaknesses. Pain has the potential to prepare us for a greater work. I once read a quote from P. T. Forsyth, a British theologian. It has stuck with me ever since: â€œIt is a greater thing to pray for painâ€™s conversion than its removal.â€ Hard and deep. But isnâ€™t that in essence what Paul did â€“ convert his thorn in the flesh into something he could use to bring greater glory to God? â€œFor I consider that the suffering of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to usâ€ (Romans 8:18).
Sympathy and compassion are two words for which we are very familiar, but they have one major difference: sympathy expresses sorrow from the vantage point of looking from the outside in, while compassion expresses sorrow looking from the inside out. Which do you think God expresses? If you said compassion, then you are correct. The word compassion in Latin means â€œwith suffering.â€ â€œFor if He causes grief, then He will have compassion according to His abundant lovingkindnessâ€ (Lam. 3:32). The way God views our sorrow from the inside out (compassion) is by entering into our pain. Let that sink in. He walks beside us, cries with us, holds our hand, understands our emotions, and intimately knows our heartaches. He captures the depth of our despair, the height of our fear, and the breadth of our concerns because He experiences it right along with us. Talk about a compassionate God . . . You can find comfort knowing that you are not alone. You can literally share your pain with the One who has chosen to enter into your pain with you. Wow! How does that make you feel? The issue then becomes we must be willing to release our pain into His capable hands so that we may receive the fullness of His blessings.
I hope this has been insightful to you. If so, please leave me a comment below in this blog. Much of the information in this blog was taken from my book â€œConfronting Cancer with Faithâ€ available through Amazon.com. Here is a link: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=confronting+cancer+with+faith&crid=1B5ZBR3I8YCVI&sprefix=confronting+cancer%2Caps%2C173&ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_18
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